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Creating a Workable Parenting Plan During Your Divorce

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Joliet parenting plan lawyer divorceWhen you and your spouse decide to get a divorce, there are a large number of decisions that need to be made about the various areas of your family’s lives that will be affected by your split. How marital property will be divided is one thing, but perhaps most important is determining how to handle child custody. This can be a time of uncertainty for your children, but a strong parenting plan will help them succeed and ensure that both parents play an active role in their lives after the divorce. 

What Is a Parenting Plan?

A parenting plan is an agreement between parents detailing how their children will be cared for after divorce. This plan is an official part of the divorce decree, and it can help make the transition into post-divorce life as seamless as possible for a child as he or she adjusts to living in two homes and dividing time between parents.

A parenting plan should cover visitation (parenting time) schedules, specify how decisions about the health and well-being of the child will be made, and address any special circumstances that suit your family’s unique needs. Here are some tips for creating a successful parenting plan: 

  • Make it a Priority: During the divorce process, your parenting plan should be one of the first things completed. This ensures that your child’s well-being is put above all else and that their care is fully thought out. Creating and implementing a workable plan allows children to begin adjusting to their new circumstances even before the divorce is finalized.
  • Put Your Children First: During divorce, it is easy to get carried away with the emotions that you are feeling about your spouse and the changes to your life. However, regardless of how you feel, the needs of your children should be put first. Do you best to avoid putting your children in the middle of conflicts or talking negatively to them about the other parent. You may not love your partner anymore, but they will always be your child’s parent, so do not let your feelings get in the way of a healthy parental relationship.
  • Communicate: Strong communication between you and your ex will benefit your children the most, so you may wish to make sure your parenting plan specifies how you will notify each other about your children’s needs or resolve future disputes. If there is something you are not comfortable with while creating the parenting plan, speak up. This will prevent these issues from coming up down the road after the plan is in place and has become legally enforceable. Ideally, the parenting plan should be there to help avoid future tensions between divorced parents, rather than to create new ones. 

Contact a Joliet, Illinois Family Law Attorney 

Knowing what to include in a parenting plan is challenging, and the help of a legal advocate can ensure that you meet your legal requirements while addressing anything that affects your parental rights. Our experienced Will County Divorce Lawyers can help you create a plan that protects your children’s best interests. Call 815-726-9200 for a free consultation. 



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